[meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

From: Peter Davidson <*P.Davidson_at_meteoritecentral.com*> Date: Mon, 24 Aug 2009 11:37:00 +0100 Message-ID: <D7171847AEFC6A4893D80C75E547E271100393_at_nmsmail02.nms2k.int> · P.Davidson_at_meteoritecentral.com

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From: "Peter Davidson" <P.Davidson at nms.ac.uk>
To: <meteorite-list at meteoritecentral.com>
Sent: Thursday, August 20, 2009 2:58 AM
Subject: Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars
> Richard and Other
>
> Like you, I am a relative newcomer to this list. Like you in the short
> time I have been a member, I have been shocked at some of the language
> and accusations being flung around. I can already hear some list 
> members
> saying, "Well! If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen".
> Nevertheless, like the UK, I am sure that the laws of libel in the US
> apply to e-mail as well as other forms of written communication. I 
> know
> that everyone on the list is passionate about meteorites, otherwise 
> why
> are we here, but some of us are allowing our passions to get in the 
> way
> of our reasoning. We are all grown-ups, so let's act like them.
>
> Peter Davidson
> Curator of Minerals
> Department of Natural Sciences
> National Museums Scotland
> National Museums Collection Centre
> 242 West Granton Road
> EDINBURGH
> EH5 1JA
> Scotland
> Tel: 00 44 131 247 4283
> E-mail: p.davidson at nms.ac.uk
> -----Original Message-----
> From: meteorite-list-bounces at meteoritecentral.com
> [mailto:meteorite-list-bounces at meteoritecentral.com] On Behalf Of
> Richard Kowalski
> Sent: 19 August 2009 19:25
> To: meteorite list
> Subject: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars
>
> I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular
> people who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in 
> general.
>
> I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the
> reasons people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with 
> others
> that have similar interests to learn from these other people, and
> hopefully to eventually contribute something of substance to the 
> group.
>
> For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning 
> the
> players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week,
> someone posted a message about some material they had to offer. 
> Another
> person asked what it was and whoo classified it. The first person
> answered the questions. Simple, clear and exactly as one would expect.
> Both were reasonable and courteous to the other. As a new collector 
> who
> knew only a few people in the field, this interaction was exactly what
> I
> wanted to see.
>
> Since the meteorite market is so "thin" and a lot of it is based on
> "faith", faith that what is being offered is exactly what is being
> represented. It is important to me that the people I interact with, 
> and
> purchase from, act professionally at all times. I have to have faith 
> in
> this person. I have to trust them. This goes for the full time dealer 
> as
> well as the "vest pocket" dealer who sells to improve his or her
> personal collection...
>
> I have purchased from both of these people, one of them has provided 
> me
> with a large percentage of my collection purchases since then. I won't
> hesitate buying from either one...
>
> Having a good reputation is important to me. Being professional is 
> too.
>
> What shocked me, as a new member was how many other people jumped in,
> making wild accusations, going off on tangents, much of which was not
> even remotely related to the original post, the question, or the 
> reply.
> It was an eye opening event for me. A number of people who sell lost 
> any
> chance to get my business.
>
> Since then there have been multiple flare ups, which has further 
> reduced
> the pool of sellers I will do business with. Those I have lost faith 
> in;
> Those who I can't trust.
>
> I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to
> who acts like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no
> doubt there are others like me who will not do business with anyone 
> who
> does not present a professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We
> all have our moments)
>
> Of course people who don't sell don't really care about this, but that
> shouldn't be an excuse. The Golden Rule should apply...
>
> Some of the people on this list are also on the list I have run for 
> over
> a decade, the Minor Planet Mailing List. That list has over 1200
> subscribers and has a great mix of both professional and amateur
> astronomers with the common interest in asteroids and comets. I run 
> the
> list with a very light hand. Scientific discussion and debate are
> welcome and encouraged, but one of the things that will get you
> moderated or banned is personal attacks.
>
> One of the worst things that can happen to any mailing list is 
> unbridled
> flames wars. I recently read here that this list was filled with
> scientists in the field of meteoritics, but now most have gone.
> Apparently previous flames caused them to leave. Thats a sad comment.
>
> I am in no way telling this list's owner how to run the list, but we
> have found that this policy works extremely well on MPML.
>
> Those who do make personal attacks rarely contribute anything of
> substance to the list, so losing them is not much of a loss...
>
> Please keep the great information coming. It is what makes being a
> member of this list worth while.
>
> Please reconsider your posts before hitting the send button if there 
> is
> no useful information in your message...
>
> Sorry for the length of this email.
> Thanks for letting me comment.
>
> --
> Richard Kowalski
> http://fullmoonphotography.net
> IMCA #1081
>
>
>
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